Heather's Space

Using up leftovers.. what can you make with it?

2011-12-30T09:43:00.000-08:00

I made a mock "shepard's pie" and more ham potato soup!

We have leftover baked beans - sooo.. here goes...

1 pound ground meat (beef, white tail, pork, or whatever you have)
1 to 2 cups leftover baked beans
1 small onion
oil or butter

Chop onion and saute in butter or oil. Add ground meat and cook until browned. Add in baked beans and stir until combined.

Now here is where I got creative - I had half of a spaghetti squash that I needed to use up.

1/2 of a small spaghetti squash that has already been baked
1 egg
1/2 cup half and half, cream or milk
1/2 cup or more of shredded cheese (I used colby jack)
Season to taste with onion powder, garlic and salt

Mix all those ingredients together.

In a baking dish - layer meat and bean mixture and then on top gently spread the squash mixture. Bake in the oven about 45 minutes.
Allow to rest a few minutes after removing from the oven. Serve and enjoy!

Ham and potato soup!
We have quite a bit of leftover ham - I already used the bone in soup a few days ago - but no one is eating the ham, so into a soup it goes!

One of the keys in making a good hearty (wheat free) potato soup is the amount of water you use.

so.. here ya go...

3 stalks celery - cleaned and diced
1 medium onion - cleaned and diced
butter or oil or a combination of

In a large stock pot - saute your celery and onion in the butter/oil over medium to low heat until they just start to get tender. While those saute - peel about 7 or 8 potatoes. Dice the potatoes and add them to the pot and then add some water - add just enough to not quite cover the potatoes - a few pieces will be above the water line, but not many. Bring everything back to a simmer. And chop up your ham - add as much or as little as you want. We love ham in soup so I probably added about 1 to 1 1/2 cups. Give everything a good gentle stir. When the potatoes are tender - give them a good mash with a masher and give them another good stir to get everything off the bottom of the pot.

Add to your soup
about 1 cup of shredded cheese (I used colby jack)
and stir until the cheese is melted
Then add
1 to 2 cups half and half - 1/2 cup at a time stirring it until you get the consistency you like.

Let the soup rest off the heat for a few minutes. Give one more stir and then serve!

The mock shepard's pie is new to us but I really like it!

The soup is a favorite here and often I never make enough even if I have two pots FULL!

By the moon light....

2011-02-19T07:04:00.000-08:00

I couldn't think of anything to write so I opted to post a recent picture. I tried to get a clear shot of the moon but it was not to be. But I did get this pretty picture on a whim. Check out Pause the Roof Kitty on my photo blog.

3 Bean Soup

2010-11-03T14:31:00.001-07:00

3 Bean Soup!
This is a very easy to fix soup and likely can find the canned beans of these varieties easily at most stores.

In the picture shown I did have to sub red kidney beans for the great northern beans. But that just goes to show that this is versatile.

3 Bean Soup
1 (28 oz) canned diced tomatoes
1 (28 oz) canned pinto beans
1 (28 oz) canned black beans
1 (28 oz) canned great northern beans
** Please note these are approximate can sizes -
basically near equal amounts of the beans and diced tomatoes.**

1 onion - finely chopped
1 tbsp or less of olive oil or butter or a combination
1 tbsp chili powder
1 tsp garlic powder
1/2 tsp ground cinnamon (or to taste - but be mindful the longer its in the liquid the stronger it gets.)
1/2 tsp ground cumin (or to taste)

Saute finely chopped onion in olive oil or butter until translucent. Add juices from canned tomatoes and beans and reduce over medium heat stirring often. Pouring all that extra juice out is a waste of yumminess- trust me. Add tomatoes and all the beans. Gently blend in the seasonings. Simmer over LOW heat, stirring OFTEN (burned tomatoes are nasty and this can easily burn), for about an hour.

That's it.

Enjoy this with crusty bread, crackers or corn bread. Or all by itself.

Errand day....

2009-09-02T13:05:00.000-07:00

I have decided that there are just not enough hours in the day to get all of my "first of the month" errands done on one day.

7am - got off work and came home, fed the kinder kid, made his lunch and took him to school.

820am - dressed to the shoes in nice "going out" clothes instead of being in my scrubs all day and headed to Star Bucks to have coffee and biscuits with a friend.

11am - finished with Bank, Bureau, and Walmart. And visited a new store in town - Tuesday Mornings.

12pm - Had lunch with the DH.

1pm - Made my DMV, Insurance, Aaron's, (talked to Vicky about how to handle a collision she was involved in -- she's okay, her truck is not.), and Auto Parts store... and made it home by 3pm.

315pm - pick up the kinder kid and start evening routine...

Whew... am TUCKERED OUT!

The "To Do" and the "Done"

2009-09-01T13:44:00.000-07:00

Nothing is ever complete. That's one thing I can count on.... I have a sink full of dishes that need washed, a laundry room with sorted piles that need washed, and a never ending list of things I can get done. And never enough time or energy!

Yesterday:
Cleaned in the bedroom - which included de-cluttering, sorting and folding laundry (forever known as Mt.Washed Already!) and generally picking up and putting away stuff. I washed several loads of laundry and then the boys got to sort it and fold and put away all the clean towels. I put my stuff and kinder kids stuff away. And left a neat stack for Sean to do with his stuff.

Today:
I cleaned the back porch - which meant taking everything off of it and sweeping it thoroughly. Then washed the shelves and all the planters that were out there. Collected all the trash. Cleaned out the fridge (which needs more work, but the old stuff is out.) And generally picked up and put away things throughout the day too.

That's the extent of the "Done" list.

My "To Do" list is as follows:
1. Clean my bedroom - compile a list of movies, and declutter more spots.

2. Clean out the book closet.

3. Clean out the clothing closet.

4. Critter corral (will do this with assistance from 14yo later this week)

5. Do work on the yard - clean up trash, bag it, mow n weed whack. Why is it when you live on a major road that people think yards are their personal trash bins??? grrrrr....

6. Figure out what to do with my MIL's stuff. She passed over a year ago and this stuff needs a new home. Which means working with Sean to figure out how and where to store it.

7. Toys..... that is a work in progress too. And to be done with school IN session.

And IT is TERMINATED!

2009-06-18T17:32:00.000-07:00

After 5 years, 11 months and just over 2 weeks of long talks, long walks, and bunches of prayers it is done. My second ex-husband's rights have been officially terminated. And as you can see, by reading this -- that yes, there has been an adoption too.

He has failed (in so many ways) to keep in contact, refused to pay support, to be a part of the child's life that he and I had together.

He will make claims. He will say things now.....

But alas, he is the one that made the choice to keep his silence. He knew, and has always known where to find me. And if he tells you otherwise its just another one of his "dis" honesty traits coming through.

My ex-brother in law is now married and I talk to his wife regularly via text. I only told her limited things for several reasons that her and I have talked about and she said she was "okay" with my reservations.

My ex has refused to tell me where he is. All I ever had was "hearsay". And he's been known to lie to me every single chance he gets. ..........

So, as of today. He no longer has a son. I still get to be a part of Stephen's life as "aunt". And the "other mother".. *giggles. Which is really cute when that little "charm" shows up at opportune times.

Today we celebrate! And give thanks to the Lord!

Laney.....

2009-05-02T12:25:00.000-07:00

She's usually in constant motion, so its hard to get good pictures.

Sometimes you just gotta have fun....

2009-02-18T06:44:00.000-08:00

I get some really cute classics in my email inbox sometimes. Yesterday I got this but didn't have a chance to open it. I opened it this morning and got totally tickled by this one because I love cats.

I printed it out and am going to post it to my dh's locker and my teamleader's cork board! They will enjoy it immensely!

The pups... they are too funny!

2008-11-19T10:43:00.000-08:00

This is "Roscoe"

This is "Casey"

And then the both of them... lil mutts they are!

These are the terrier mixes we have. Casey has proved to be a challenge keeping in the yard as she makes her way out often if we do not chain her. She looks for weakness and if she can't find any she will climb the corner of the fence. She's rather creative that way!

I had a helper...

2008-11-15T13:41:00.001-08:00

Logan and my new additions.

I went out for the day and came back with a few gerbera rescues, a big planter, and a large bag of soil. Logan wanted to help me re pot my new additions.

Another close up of surprise fall color.

There popping up Daisies! Gerbera Daisies!

2008-11-11T15:16:00.001-08:00

I purchased some mark down rescues and am going to baby them thru the winter in the house. These are my first blooms! They are beautiful! And there are more! Just babies on my second plant in the same planter! I hope to have pretties all winter long if I do this right!

Work mode and circles....

2008-09-26T10:52:00.000-07:00

It's been a cheery day here.

I was having fun in a chat room talking to some flybaby friends. We got onto a discussion about how men go into work mode. Which in reality, is not a bad thing -- unless of course you need to get their attention. But often you get this response -
"I am busy. Please leave a message at the grunt." Nuff said.

My 4 yo is delighted that daddy came home for lunch. Except he managed to get his rip cord pulled. He's currently running. From the front door, thru the kitchen, out the back door, along the side yard, thru the front yard, up the porch.. and it starts all over again. I guess I should be grateful. He's burning off energy. Yay. Just don't make facial contact with anything okay?! I will probably have to watch from the couch.

Are you strong enough?

2008-09-14T17:14:00.000-07:00

My 4 yo toddler is full of it! Just a little while ago I was outside talking to my husband on the cell phone. Logan was in the process of pushing the lawn mower around. He asked me to start it. I told him no. He persisted. I told him. "When you are big and strong enough to start it you can mow." He then asked his older brothers to start it for him and again while they were there I told the toddler again, "when you can pull that string and it starts you can mow."

Enter dad.....

"Daddy, you are big enough to pull the mower right?"

"Yes."

"Will you come pull it for me."

We are in some serious trouble! LOL

Azure to you!

2008-09-09T06:00:00.001-07:00

What Your Blue Umbrella Says About You

When faced with adversity, you can be counted on.

You rise to the occasion when things are tough, and you are very dependable.

You are cool and laid back. Everyone finds you easy to get along with.

You are a good communicator and conversationalist. People pour their hearts out to you.

On a rainy day: you should spend the day catching up with your closest friends

The Umbrella Test

Is you or is you aint?

2008-09-09T05:57:00.000-07:00

I dont care about grammar today. I've had 4 hours sleep... less than a "hand full".. so lemme be!

You Are 60% Boyish and 40% Girlish

You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch.

Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes.

You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them.

You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be.

How Boyish or Girlish Are You?

Coffee... mmmmmm

2008-09-09T05:52:00.000-07:00

You Are a Plain Ole Cup of Joe

But don't think plain - instead think, uncomplicated

You're a low maintenance kind of girl... who can hang with the guys

Down to earth, easy going, and fun! Yup, that's you: the friend everyone invites.

And your dependable too. Both for a laugh and a sympathetic ear.

What Kind of Coffee Girl Are You?

It takes a little time...

2008-08-06T13:31:00.000-07:00

But you eventually learn more than you may really want to. I ran across some friends today when I was out and learned some stuff about family. I need to talk to my dh about it. When you loose a family member sometimes just stopping by may not be enough for those whom are left behind.

I have more word/color combinations --
courageous - dark emerald green
outgoing - sapphire blue

Words with Color! Please join in!

2008-08-05T15:11:00.001-07:00

I have some more to add to the word/color discussion!!

pure - saffron (a pretty orange yellow... )*from my b-i-l*
caring - yellow *from my sis.
curious (or inquisitive) - dark red wine (or navy blue)*from my teller
sunny - gold *from Sunny Yukon
Girly -- bubblegum pink *from Veggie
Sassy - turquoise *from myself
Flare - bright leaf green! *from myself
Fiery--red/orange *from Veggie
Shy--light blue *from Veggie
Happy - green (either light or dark depending on season) *from Becca
vibrant - green - a nice hunter green *from Becca
I count 11 -- that should keep me busy for a few days... pictures to come later.

We Both Win!

2008-08-03T09:01:00.000-07:00

I had my 17yo read "The Shack". He felt it was a wonderful read when he got through it. I am delighted. I hoped it would speak to his heart in some way. And it seems to have done so. He's in good spirits today and went with my beloved husband to the auto grave yard for some different things for different cars we have here in need of some hard to find items.

Let's see how he does now -- maybe the chip is a little lighter on his shoulder at least for now.

Again -- calling all descriptions! I need you to describe yourself in one word that's less than 15 letters.

Two examples
Girly -- pink
Sassy - turquoise

And if your color is used already do not hesitate to use it again, or even the same word with a new color... I need some flare in my life...

Flare - bright leaf green!

It's pure torture!

2008-08-02T17:27:00.000-07:00

My 17yo is whining. This is nothing new. He's a pain to deal with on a daily basis, and am having him read the book "The Shack" ... much to his dismay the book is dry in the beginning that much I will say. We took his phone away. Why? Because we told him to read the book, and he's deliberately avoiding it because, "IT'S BORING!" .... waaaaaa! Next step in the parade will likely be a trip to the back yard with a deck of cards. heh. I will keep you posted as time goes by. (I do work tonite and him and my husband will be gone in the morning when I get home.)

A book to read...

2008-08-02T13:34:00.000-07:00

Hey there!
I just finished "The Shack" by William Young. At the end it asks me to not give away the plot... so I am saying this much -- its a must read! You can read the reviews or even order from this link in Amazon -- The Shack By William Young. I thoroughly enjoyed the book and am having my teenage sons read it.

I need suggestions!

2008-08-02T09:02:00.001-07:00

I am going to be making something... but I need suggestions!!!

give me one word that you think describes you -- no more than 15 letters - and a color to go with that word!

Am looking forward to hearing from you!

for me -- Sassy -- in bright turquoise blue!

Here we are... there we went...

2008-07-31T09:32:00.000-07:00

UGH UGH UGH
Blogging is sometimes truly forgotten.

Sorry about that..

Blasted chicken...
1 whole chicken - cleaned up and washed, left wet.
Seasons of choice -- lemon pepper or garlic powder or onion powder, or season salt.. or cinnamon.. you get the idea...

place bird in a roaster, dust with season of choice, add enough water to cover bottom of roasting pan, leave uncovered... bake 450 for about an hour or longer -- make sure juices run clear. take out of oven and let rest. skin will be dark and crispy. cut up and enjoy.

life has just been so darn busy... more later.. maybe even pictures... ho hum...

I busted tail today cleaning!

2008-05-07T11:36:00.000-07:00

Swept and tidied back porch and watered 3 plants.

Swept and tidied front porch and watered 25 or so plants

Downloaded the laundry room by moving out the crates and sweeping, washed/dried 4 loads of laundry (jeans, 2 sets of darks, whites), completely swept up all the gross stuff, and sorted 3 crates of laundry. Cleaned up the cat food and litter stuff stored in there too.

Did a bunch of things in the kitchen -- cleared and wiped down two counters and the stove top. Washed out the crock pot and reassembled it, made coffee, cleaned off the bakers rack so that I can get the floor dried under the new vinyl flooring - which also meant moving all the canned goods out of the way too. Cleaned up the mess off the floor.

Tidied and swished/swiped both the bathroom, critter corral and attached hall ways.

Cleaned the dining room area completely - cleared/wiped down the table and swept the floor and put everything back in its place.

Raked part of the back entry area of pecan tassels.. I loathe those things. Pecan trees are great shade trees except for twice a year -- when they drop tassels and when they drop pecans!!

I had all of this done before 1pm cst today!! I am pooped!

Okay .. this is cute...

2008-05-06T13:27:00.001-07:00

Menu Plan Monday

2008-05-05T09:35:00.000-07:00

Visit
I'm an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday

Monday - Chuck roast, roasted carrots and baked potatoes

Tuesday - Spaghetti w/meat sauce and dinner rolls

Wednesday - Leftovers

Thursday - Blasted chicken, green beans, and other veggies (TBA)

Friday - TBA

Saturday - Grill day -- hamburgers, hot dogs, pork steaks, and several veggies to choose from.

Sunday - Leftovers.

I am sore... but that's a good thing

2008-05-02T05:42:00.000-07:00

The last couple of weeks have been rather telling on my mind, body and spirit. My mother in law passed away due to cancer and my spirits truly sank. I ate way too much food, gained 4 pounds, and worked for several nights in a row with a client that actually got on my last nerve, which is rare at best, and worst. On Monday I started back to doing Inhale on Oxygen. It's intense and wonderful. I also did a 35 minute power walk yesterday that was about 2 miles all told. You can get a feel for distances in your neighborhood here at Web Walking in the United States. I am sore, tired and still feeling irritable. I am going to keep doing the workouts though as I need them. Todays goals are Inhale and then probably Callanetics. These workouts are amazing and do wonderfully -- low/zero impact so your joints are not overly strained.

Now back to our regularly scheduled programs.....

Short Brain cells much?

2008-04-26T15:32:00.000-07:00

I am annoyed. Again. My 17yo son is impossible and not only that he sucks at lying and trying to be sly. He wanted to go meet this girl. hrm.... Now I find out that HER parents think my son is an 8th grader because she fibbed to her parents about him. I swear he thinks I am stupid or something. He's trouble from the word go. He's goth wanna be.. he's not good at it. So as a teenager he's really quite annoying! Short brain cells much?

I am sooo busted!

2008-04-26T04:36:00.001-07:00

I swear she sleeps anywhere! Silly kitty!

I opened the fridge to get something out and she decided she wanted something. She's got no idea what she wants -- but she knows there has to be something good in there for her. I did not boost her to the ledge. She pulled herself up on the freezer handle just below the fridge door.

Does she look worried to you?! Probably not! Silly kitty.

Pretty Texas Yellow
for you!
Enjoy!

Light and delightful reading!

2008-04-24T17:08:00.001-07:00

Last night was a rough night at work for me and there was a book settled into a basket in the room. It had this beautiful yellow labrador on the front cover and its name was, Marley and Me, and written by John Grogan. This book is wonderfully written and delightful in the life and fun of a loony, obnoxious, fun loving dog and his family. John does an excellent job of descriptions that leave you giggling at the silly stuff and in an outpouring of tears at the heartbreak of loss. I will never view a slinky in quite the same way! Thank you John Grogan!
If you love dogs and the families that have them you will find this book to be a delight.

I am mad!

2008-04-24T06:58:00.000-07:00

Okay -- I don't care if you get mad reading this. I am mad. I am hurt. And I have had enough.
I work as a caregiver to most people whom are well older than 65. And I am all about respect and allowing elders to do as they please as they have likely earned it. Many of them have worked hard to get what they have just like the rest of us. Many of the elders have family that has us there to help in day to day care and are responsible for medical care of their loved one -- NOT us - the caregiver.
But for the LOVE OF PETE!!!! DO NOT allow them to NEGLECT BASIC CARE!! To include their feet. Those toe nails still grow -- and they need trimmed and they need care if a nail gets ingrown!
I sat with a client last night that refuses to bathe. Luckily she's not a smelly kind of person but she will refuse to get up, she has days she refuses to eat, she will refuse to bathe and she "just wants to die". Well, hello?! I can understand not wanting to live sometimes -- but she truly is a SPOILED ROTTEN BRAT! And as a result of refusing even basic care she's got an ingrown toenail. (ingrown toenails HURT beyond belief!) She cried and wailed and boo hoo'd for HOURS! I can deal with her being up all night reading. I can deal with her being grouchy. I can deal with getting her snacks at any and all hours. I can even deal with her wanting to go walking the halls all hours of the night!
BUT I CANNOT deal with her wailing and gnashing and begging, "Please God Let ME DIE!"

And you people with training as a nurse or doctor -- DO NOT EVEN TELL ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT A DOCTOR KNOWS! For GOODNESS SAKE - I am a person with a God given gift called a BRAIN and contrary to POPULAR BELIEF I DO KNOW HOW TO THINK AND USE IT! (Unlike some doctors AND nurses who forgot basic thinking skills when they became a god! -- toss in rotten bed side manners and you really have a winner! NOT! By the way, if you are a nurse or a doctor and you have been told you have a bad bedside manner -- TOO BAD!)

My MIL of 58 yrs young died this last weekend and she fought with every bit of her being to stay alive. She wanted to live! She couldn't and doctors could do nothing to stop her progressive illness. She went to doctors and got care! And this client I sit with? no care whatsoever by her choice and she's still here! WHINING!

GROW UP!

(I did tell her to stop saying to please let her die -- that really hit a very RAW nerve!)

Anyone know of patient advocates that look into cases like this?! This old gal refuses treatment but when does the caregiver or nurse on duty have a right to over ride the patient's wishes for things that really are basic needs and care? I can understand not wanting to take meds for say high blood pressure, or heart disease, or other "life threatening" long term medical conditions -- but for basic stuff like bathing, and hand, foot, hair and skin care?! Especially when neglecting these things leads to infections that are painful, non-life threatening and easily treatable?!

Update to add: My employer has been contacted and is making sure the client does get seen for her toe -- so that is being handled thankfully. I went so far as to say, "Ya know, someone needs to piss in clients wheaties and make her do something about her hygiene!" My employer giggled and agreed.

You are missed!

2008-04-22T11:02:00.000-07:00

"Liz" Vlasek

You are greatly missed by Sean, myself and the boys.
The Obituary for Liz
*provided by Grimes Funeral Home of Kerrville Texas.

Be sure to say, "I love you."

2008-04-21T16:53:00.000-07:00

Anyone who knows me will find that this will not be a light of heart post in many respects. My mother in law of 4 years passed away this last Saturday. She was a 58 years young. She died of complications due to lung cancer. (Otherwise known as small cell carcinoma -- and is a smoker's cancer.) She is going to be dearly missed by my husband and myself. If you have family you dearly love and want to spend time with now is the time to take stock of what your relationship is like and spend time with them. Those we love and trust are not going to be around forever. Do not take for granted that it won't happen to you, because you may very well be next on that list.

Moral of this: Spend time with those you cherish and love because tomorrow you may not get to say,'I love you.'

The flip side to this -- my mother in law is no longer in pain. She was a vibrant, energetic and amazing woman! And she's likely with her dad pulling pranks on the living just because she can!

GOD is Busy

2008-04-21T16:09:00.000-07:00

If you don't know GOD, don't make stupid remarks!!!!!!!
A United States Marine was attending some college courses between assignments. He had completed missions in Iraq and Afghanistan. One of the courses had a professor who was an avowed atheist and a member of the ACLU.

One day the professor shocked the class when he came in. He looked to the ceiling and flatly stated, 'God, if you are real, then I want you to knock me off this platform. I'll give you exactly 15 minutes.' The lecture room fell silent. You could hear a pin drop.

Ten minutes went by and the professor proclaimed, 'Here I am God. I'm still waiting.' It got down to the last couple of minutes when the Marine got out of his chair, went up to the professor, and cold-cocked him; knocking him off the platform. The professor was out cold. The Marine went back to his seat and sat there, silently.

The other students were shocked and stunned and sat there looking on in silence. The professor eventually came to, noticeably shaken, looked at the Marine and asked, 'What the heck is the matter with you? Why did you do that?'

The Marine calmly replied, 'God was too busy today protecting America's soldiers who are protecting your right to say stupid stuff and act like an idiot. So, He sent me.'

Longest weekend on memory....

2008-04-21T13:06:00.001-07:00

I am going to start with this -- I have gained about 3 pounds from all the food I consumed starting on Thursday last week until today! I have eaten enough goodies and junk and bbq and goodness knows what else! Needless to say -- I have not been very hungry since returning home. And I really need to start exercising too.

This is an exceptionally long post.. and has some sadness in it. If you choose not to read it that's okay.

Anyway to start off our week last Monday we learned my husband's mother was only given a week to live. Her anniversary and birthday were both coming up this same week. On Thursday night we went to her home and celebrated both the anniversary and birthday, and got to tell her we loved her and would miss her. She was asked by a few to say hello to a few that have already gone to be with the Lord. We didnt get home until about 10pm. And we were exhausted!

Friday --- we had been planning the trip that I have already posted pictures of for about 6 weeks. And my step daughter was supposed to visit. She'd been having car trouble since getting into Oklahoma -- and it didnt stop giving her trouble even after she arrived in San Antonio. She was going to stay with us, but learned that they had nice guest quarters on base where her husband is currently in school. So she's opted to stay there. My husband had to go rescue her north of San Antonio and got her running just long enough to make it to base. My husband returned home to learn that one uncle would be making it into town later in the evening. Calvin, TJ and I packed and headed out for our planned Dallas trip at 5pm. We arrived in Dallas area and hotel at midnight. We crashed out about 1am -- but I understand many of the other students didnt get to sleep til 3am. 8am came bright and early for them. I woke up on my own at around 630am -- and started getting ready for the day. We left the hotel at 930am for Sandy Lake park. (sandylake.com -- if you want to check it out.)

Saturday -- We got up early, bathed and readied for the day. We went down for brekkie at 830am in the hotel's breakfast room.

9am was a turning point for my day. My husband called me and let me know his mom had passed peacefully with her husband, brother, sisters, and grandma at her side. I told my older son, but not the younger one at that time. I know my boys well enough to be able to determine reactions to this kind of news. (And I was right on the money - more later.)

At 930am we loaded up into our two vans and headed out for Sandy Lake Park. Upon arrival we were given our tickets for lunch and rides, and asked to be back to the vans at 2pm. Mine and another group teamed up and we headed for the rides. I am not up to getting a beating on the rides that they have at the carnival settings! So, I didn't get on the Spider or Tilt-A-Whirl or any of those other rides that leave you gasping for breath and bruised from head to toe. I did however, brave paddle boats and enjoyed the fun. After the paddle boats we went to the arcade and the kids played several games a piece. I often see the fun toys they have and wonder what it would be like done up in papermache and on display over having yet another stuffy! So, no new stuffed toys for me (yet). My younger boy had a knack for the JackPot on one arcade game and was able to hit it twice consecutively! What a lucky dog! He got himself a cute lil tiger stuffy, and a few other lil trinkets. While at the arcade me and the other "group leader"(another mom) decided to turn the teenagers loose. Why in heaven's name should we make them tag along with us?! They are teens and most of them are good kids, and this group has been turned loose at Fiesta Texas from what I understand. After the arcade I opted to eat lunch. I had asked for the bbq plate - and it was awesome. I was totally stuffed. I was also grateful I had opted for it -- as the only "pizza" they had was pepperoni, and am allergic to pepperoni. And eating a hotdog? No thanks! After wandering solo for a while -- and finding some shade to enjoy I just sat and relaxed for a while without any teens. They enjoyed being let loose though too. At 2pm we met up at the vans and gathered instruments and made the way to a practice tent. At 230 they called the band up for their performance. At 330 the awards ceremony took place. We left for a place called the "Main Event" after the awards were done. I was already exhausted! I enjoyed some fried pickles, and wandered around. The kids had a wonderful time! We left at 7pm or so. On our ride home I finally told my younger son about his grandmother passing that morning. He cried and clung to me for a while and we talked about how she's with angels now and gets to do all the things she's dreamed of doing for the last few months since she's been ill. (my husband later informed me she's likely with her dad and pulling pranks on the living! and yes, that's the truth! LOL) We arrived back in our little home town at 1am in the morning. So, counting from start to finish we were on the road and crammed a ton of activities into 32 hours of what has had to be the longest weekend on my memory in a while! (5pm Friday to 1am Sunday)

I didn't wake up until 1130am on Sunday -- and we went back to my mother-in-laws house to meet up with family for the last time for the weekend. We arrived back home tired and grumpy. The kids were sent to bed at normal time -- 9pm and me and hubby crashed out too.

And the last of it!

2008-04-20T12:43:00.000-07:00

They did an excellent job! Way to go Band!

I should have known better than to hand him that camera! LOL

The Lazer Tag bunch! They had a Blast! (No pun intended!)

They had a Put Put Golf in the Main Event -- this is my shirt in there!
If you think that's bad?
You should have seen the Orange hair on that one girl!! LOL

After the fun... we had work to do

2008-04-19T15:33:00.000-07:00

Ride the PONY!

He won the Jack Pot TWICE! Wow!

Who did you have do your beautiful hair!?

Time to go to work! He looks ready to me....

They had an excellent warm up! They are mostly new kids too!

Lions, Spiders and Paddle Boats - OH MY!

2008-04-19T15:24:00.000-07:00

The Lion Got His Lunch!

TJ won the battle! No MORE Lunch!

Waiting in line to ride the Spider...
I wasn't fast enough to catch them ON the ride!

The Paddle Boat Bunch! We were soooo tired after paddling around!

The OTHER Girls found the shade! We made 'em share!

The trip part 1

2008-04-19T11:58:00.000-07:00

TJ feeling good on the way to the park! We had a long drive!

Our driver! And the band director! Did I mention we all LOVE her?!

YAY! We finally arrived -- the next morning after
maybe 4 hours of sleep at the hotel.

Unloading the vans...... we had a total of 17 teens and 6 adults!

Diamond Has Grown!

2008-04-18T11:42:00.000-07:00

Remember when I posted this picture?
Diamond baby picture

Sean's always hiding.....

2008-04-17T11:52:00.000-07:00

Under the closest car for that ever elusive gremlin!

ICMYT and my clothing....

2008-04-16T12:25:00.000-07:00

Welcome welcome.... I have some pictures that I am going to work on in the morning to post. Tonite the computer will be taken up by my dh doing some work on it so it wont be available and right now I have a headache and keeping it simple is best for me.

I got some clothing over the Christmas holidays. And by March they didnt fit me anymore. I have never gained weight quickly enough that I had clothing that didnt fit in a few short months. This week I have been able to fit back into the jeans that I got over the holidays. And I have been exercising too, when I can.

Also, want to pass along that it is a good chance I won't be blogging often over the next two or so weeks as my Mother In Law has been diagnosed with cancer in her brain. She's not expected to recover, and they have already done everything they can for her. I am already losing work hours as I have asked to take time off to make it to different functions with my husband while we work through this trial in our life.

Many blessings!

ICMYT - two weeks later

2008-04-08T12:56:00.001-07:00

Okay, I have lost about 3 1/2 pounds since starting this program. I have not been able to sit still long enough to watch parts 3 and 4. I do the tapping but I noticed I don't need it very often. And I have started on a light exercise program. I am definitely eating less, eating much more consciously and really enjoying and savoring foods I choose to eat.

You can check it out at www.mckenna.com ---

Have a blessed day!

Two quick spring pictures...

2008-04-08T12:41:00.000-07:00

Late spring for us -- most of the trees are already in full leaves. I wanted to get one sooner but alas life has been throwing plenty of wrenches in my day!

My first fire rose of the season.

Have a blessed day!

It's Friday and..............

2008-03-21T07:49:00.000-07:00

So as not to concentrate on the ICMYT blog line I will work on getting some pictures to post, things I have worked on and also still post about my ICMYT foods for the day.

This morning I did pretty good. I love avocados and will purchase 2 or 3 a week. I had 2/3 of a fresh one mashed with some seasonings for brekkie with some crackers. Usually, I would devour the ENTIRE THING! (And go looking to make more.) My 14yo brought me a piece of cinnamon roll toast and am feeling a bit over stuffed now. That will burn off and all will be good with the world.

Later am going to "find" the camera and take picture of the "deer beds", my washed Pathfinder... and whatever else sounds intriguing. (I know where the camera is stashed, but my 17yo camera nut keeps taking pictures after being told to leave said camera ALONE! grrrr)

Many blessings!

ICMYT entry for today......

2008-03-20T07:19:00.000-07:00

I finally weighed myself today before I ate. I was fully dressed to the shoes as it is cool in the house this morning since we had a freeze last night. 135 pounds. I weighed that much at term when I was pregnant with my first son 17 yrs ago!

I have been following the rules and its been pleasantly refreshing. Eating only when I am hungry, savoring my food, and taking home to go boxes for when I am full, or getting smaller servings. Feeling like its okay to cover the dish when I am full and putting it away in the fridge. (even if i dont eat it later - it still has the opportunity to not be wasted before dumping it in the trash)

When you are hungry, EAT.
Eat what you want, not what you think you should.
Eat CONSCIOUSLY and enjoy every mouthful.
When you think you are full, STOP eating.

This morning though, I wanted walnuts. And what better way to enjoy walnuts but with some vanilla ice cream and choc. syrup! I know.. not exactly healthy -- but I do make it a point to find healthy things I enjoy the rest of the day. Will keep you posted. 1 scoop and just a small splash of choc syrup and yep, am full... YUM!! Plus a few handfuls of walnuts because I really enjoy them plain too!!

My eating the last few days has lessened and I do not feel like am starving at all any. I make sure not to get "famished" before I find something to eat. Even if I have to get a small snack from the store if I am out and about.

Update: I had a ham sammy for a snack because I was hungry before lunch. And at lunch I will have to admit I goofed up and stuffed my self to overflowing. Though I didnt clean my plate entirely. We went out to eat and well -- mexican is a favorite so I throughly enjoyed it. (Suffering the side effects now... *snooze button*)

To finish out my day I had "snack foods" for dinner because I got running late to get to work. Reese's peanut butter cups, chips and a frozen strawberry bar...... Will do better tomorrow night for dinner!

Many blessings!

(PS am very much looking forward to episode 2!!!)

Who knew?

2008-03-17T05:30:00.000-07:00

Okay -- check this out today if you have a chance.

www.tlc.com/thin

His shows will be on for the next five weeks. If you missed episode one there are other viewings this week you can catch it!

Many blessings!

Scatting off my duff to get ready for the day!

Who said raising kids is a blessing?

2008-02-24T18:45:00.000-08:00

I live with a bunch of males. One adult, three teenagers, and one toddler. And my brain just left and went elsewhere for the night. I had planned on talking about something especially about the toddler. He's a pill -- and he's growing up very fast. Too fast really.

Resting in bed one night he comes in to cuddle with me.

"Did you finish your dinner?"

"Wellllll, not yet actually."

Then, the other evening oldest made him some chocolate milk.

"How's the chocolate milk?"

"It's pretty good, Calvin."

Little did I realize that I have a 33 yr old man in a 3 yr old toddler suit! I want to know what happened to words like "nummy" and "I wike it." went?!

Take care! I am going to go stand on his toes and pull his hair so that the body will fit the words that comes out of the kiddos mouth. Oh, and get more miracle grow because tomorrow -- he will be like my 14yo who when school started last fall was just slightly shorter than me and now stands taller than me.. that's what? 5 1/2 months? Seems like 5 1/2 minutes ago!

Why post....

2008-02-19T13:14:00.000-08:00

Hey !

Well... I have not kept up with this and most likely will not continue to keep up still. I will try to post when I feel like it.

Current projects -
1. de-cluttering my house
2. resin jewelry/castings
3. papier mache shelving. (I will post a picture of that soon as I have already started it. And despite belief it is very sturdy stuff. I guess I can post work in progress pictures. but alas, no promises.... )
4. rag rugs. learning a technique is interesting.... and you can learn several things from these videos ---

http://whimfield.com/?p=4

Laura does an excellent description/footage of how to make these simple beautiful rugs. Of course, I have to be difficult and try it with yarn. Am having problems with the yarn twisting.... ba humbug! Suggestions on keeping the yarn from being ornery and twisting are welcome....

Chat soon!

Many blessings!

Liz Obituary

2008-01-19T11:09:00.000-08:00

Elizabeth Vlasek
Born on April 19, 1950 in Wharton, TX
Departed on April 19, 2008 and resided in Hunt, TX

Elizabeth Vlasek, age 58 of Hunt, Texas, passed away Saturday, April 19, 2008 at her residence. She was born April 19, 1950 in Wharton, Texas to Thomas Wilson Jopling, Sr. and Dorothy Elizabeth Hicks Jopling. On April 9, 1988, she married William Ed Vlasek, Jr. in Hunt, Texas.

Elizabeth graduated from Wharton High School and Wharton County Junior College. In 1978, she was a Junior Accountant and Office Manager for Duffie Monroe & Sons, Inc. in Wharton. In 1979, she was a Junior Accountant for Automated Data Analysis, Inc. In 1984, she worked for the City of Wharton as the City Secretary and supervisor of accounting, personnel and their utility offices. In Ingram, Texas Moore Lumber Company employed her as their bookkeeper. She worked for Doctor’s James and Odemaris Young. She also worked for Dr. David R. Miloy in Kerrville, Texas as his secretary.

Elizabeth was an inspiration to everyone. She was a devoted and loving wife, mother and friend to all.

She was preceded in death by her father, Thomas W. Jopling, Sr. and a sister, Virginia R. Smith.

Survivors include husband, William Ed "Willy" Vlasek, Jr. of Hunt, Texas; mother, Dorothy Elizabeth Jopling of Wharton, Texas; sons, Sean Lee Bayliss and wife, Heather of Center Point, Texas and Keith Alan Bayliss and wife, Kathy of Quitman, Texas; sisters, Laura Elaine Abel of Houston, Texas, Capt. Patricia Jopling, and Charlene Conteras of El Campo, Texas; brothers, Thomas Wilson Jopling, Jr. and wife, Kay of Magnolia, Texas and James David Jopling of East Bernard, Texas; and numerous grandchildren.

Works For Me Wednesday

2008-01-09T13:31:00.000-08:00

What are your ideas on how to deal with stiff sore muscles after you have worked out? Do you wait a few days to work out again? I did this workout yesterday and am SORE as can be! I was not able to do the entire workout today and Logan - bless his heart - wanted to play "bonk MOM" and kept deliberately getting hit in one way or another against me and then pretending to fall down. He did not cry but did the whole flop to the floor routine and then goes, "MOM!!" as indignantly as he could.

I am drinking water which I know helps. I did stretch and warm up today. But man.. OW?!

Thanks for your ideas and input.

Sippy cups and workouts....

2008-01-08T13:06:00.000-08:00

For anyone who has kids you usually have a stock of sippy cups too.
You ever find long lost sippy cups (usually around 24 hours old) that had milk in them that is now soured and gross? Don't want to spend money on new ones because you know that the kidlet is going to loose them anyway? Get you some water color paints and then steal that paint brush out of it! You can use that brush in that hot soapy water to clean out those hard to reach places of the sippy cup. Like the spout and the crevice of the lid where it seals against the cup!
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Many of us want to work out and often find ourselves in front of a TV or some other place unable to keep up with that aerobic dancer that bounces across the room in front of you. I found a dvd at my local library and I absolutely LOVE IT after only one work out! Yep, am gonna be sore in the morning but I really did enjoy this workout and plan to continue to do it everyday. It's easy to keep up with and gives you a satisfying workout without making you feel as if you are trying to roller skate up hill! Click the blue link to get you a copy of this workout today! I am not getting anything except a nice tight tummy and bum for recommending this video!

Mom and Tot Workout

A New Look...

2007-12-30T20:18:00.000-08:00

I decided that I would do a new look. One of my settings I had on the old look caused the page to be scrolled wrong so I decided fresh is best. It's the new year just a few short 24 hours or so away and I have been sitting with a client that is ready to go home. I will put back in my different settings I had before as time goes by. Leave me a note if you want your blog included in my listings. I lost all of them when I reset the format.

Hugs and blessings,
Heather

PM bowl part 1

2007-12-15T11:38:00.000-08:00

Part one was pretty easy. I soaked torn newspaper in a bowl for a few days. then i mashed it all up. Drained some of the water off... added elmers glue and some salt. The salt helps to keep mold away. My next step will be to paint it in several coats of acrylics. And then try to do up a pretty floral arrangement in it for my step mom.

A few recent pictures

2007-10-20T16:41:00.000-07:00

Here is Diamond -- she's our newest addition to the family. A week and a half ago she was a very different sight. Skinny, filthy and more hisses then I cared to count. Now you can see she's clean, and lively. She was attacking and pulling my husband's hand down to her so she could chew on his fingers. It's fun to listen to him laugh as she's made the most of his playing with her.

Below is a picture of my oldest boy on Band Night! He's an excellent clarinet player and is in the marching band. He also plays sax for spring concert season. Very talented young man!! I don't have any skill at playing wind instruments.

A Spanking Pickle

2007-09-06T06:46:00.001-07:00

When do you resort to spanking a child? Is spanking right? Is spanking wrong? I know that this has been an avid debate in many homes and communities nationwide.

I spank my children. I use it as a last resort. I do not like spanking and try to use it only in situations where everything else has not worked to get my child to understand that the choices he's making are dangerous. I use time out regularly as well as other discipline alternatives. I also use rewards for desirable behaviors.

Most of us have stoves we use on a daily basis. Kids are naturally attracted to things we do every day. We, as adults KNOW that stove is HOT and getting close enough or even touching that HOT stove is going to HURT! And not only is it going to hurt -- its going to hurt a LONG time.

So, what is more cruel? A swat on the behind that only lasts moments to deter them from touching the hot stove. OR what potentially can be a NASTY burn from letting them touch it, that the pain will last several hours to several months? (Several months, of course, being the very worst case scenario of burn wounds that refuse to heal.)

It's a very frustrating topic. Many believe that spanking promotes causing pain is okay. Others think that spanking is needed to stop behavior that otherwise is problematic. Still others use spanking as routine to get the children to do what the adult thinks they should do.

I often wonder about these people who say spanking is the worst most horrible thing you can do to your own child. I would like to watch them interacting with their children for about 2 months. Who's the "ruler of the roost" in their home? I have seen it both ways -- where the kids rule the roost and get everything they want. And where the parents rule the roost and guess what? Many of them spank. And where the kids "rule the roost" the kids are out of control, cruel, disobedient and had I talked to my parent that way I would have had my face slapped off.

I do not think there is a happy medium here. What has worked for one child in my home has not worked for the others. My youngest son and my second child are perfect examples of that. My youngest is a dare devil. He does things the others had never dreamed of doing at the same age. One of those things is he used to be very attracted to the road which our house is close to. Living on a busy street has been part of mine and the children's lives nearly all the time. My second child -- he never gave me trouble about going toward the street to investigate every car and truck that went by. The youngest, however, is completely different in that aspect. Everything that goes by on that street has got to be fun! The only problem is -- its also very dangerous for a 25 pound lightening bolt made of delicate bones and muscle to encounter 175 pounds plus of metal going at least 20 mph or more. (Average adult cyclist *male or female* is 175 pounds with the bike and they move fast down my road -- that being the smallest of the worries. On up to fully loaded 18 wheelers weighing in at 28 tons. Despite best efforts I don't think any of them can stop on a dime to avoid hitting something jumping out in front of them.)

The second child --- I could give him a look and he wouldn't dare go near a busy street. The youngest child -- the temptation and the impulse to investigate that road was simply more than he could tolerate no matter how many times I made it clearly a bad idea for making a bee-line to that road, UNTIL -- I spanked him. That is when he finally got it that I absolutely meant it when I said do not go near the road!

Every situation is a bit different for everyone. Personalities, life experiences, life in general all play a factor in how we deal with things.

If you choose not to spank your children and it works for you then don't spank them. If you choose to spank your children as a means of discipline then be responsible about why, when and where you use this form of discipline. Also, do yourself and your child a favor. Do not spank them when you are blind with anger. The use of spanking does hurt - just be sure to control yourself so that the hurt is as it is meant to be - short term discomfort to make a point. Men that spank have to be extra careful - males by nature are stronger and tend to strike harder than they realize.

Many blessings......

Are you ready for kids?

2007-07-31T12:55:00.000-07:00

MESS TEST
Smear peanut butter on the sofa and curtains. Place a fish stick
behind the couch and leave it there all summer.

TOY TEST
Obtain a 55 gallon box of Legos (or you may substitute roofing
tacks). Have a friend spread them all over the house. Put on a blindfold.
Try to walk to the bathroom or kitchen. Do not scream because this
would wake a child at night.

GROCERY STORE TEST
Borrow one or two small animals (goats are best) and take them with
you as you shop. Always keep them in sight and pay for anything they
eat or damage.

DRESSING TEST
Obtain one large, unhappy, live octopus. Stuff into a small net bag
making sure that all the arms stay inside.

FEEDING TEST
Obtain a large plastic milk jug. Fill halfway with water. Suspend
from the ceiling with a cord. Start the jug swinging. Try to insert
spoonfuls of soggy cereal into the mouth of the jug, while pretending to
be an airplane. Now dump the contents of the jug
on the floor.

NIGHT TEST
Prepare by obtaining a small cloth bag and fill it with 8-12 pounds
of sand. Soak it thoroughly in water. At 3:00p.m. begin to waltz and
hum with the bag until 9:00p.m. Lay down your bag and set your alarm
for 10:00p.m. Get up, pick up your bag, and sing every song you have
ever heard. Make up about a dozen more and sing these too until
4:00a.m. Set alarm for 5:00a.m. Get up and make breakfast. Keep this up for
5 years. Look cheerful.

INGENUITY TEST
Take an egg carton. Using a pair of scissors and pot of paint, turn
it into an alligator. Now take a toilet paper tube and turn it into an
attractive Christmas candle. Use only scotch tape and a piece of
foil. Last, take a milk carton, a ping-pong ball, and an empty box of
Cocoa Puffs. Make an exact replica of the Eiffel Tower.

AUTOMOBILE TEST
Forget the BMW and buy a station wagon. Buy a chocolate ice cream
cone and put it in the glove compartment. Leave it there. Get a dime.
Stick it into the cassette player. Take a family size package of
chocolate chip cookies. Mash them into the back seat. Run a garden rake
along both sides of the car. There, perfect.

PHYSICAL TEST (Women)
Obtain a large bean bag chair and attach it to the front of your
clothes. Leave it there for 9 months. Now remove 10 of the beans. And try
not to notice your closet full of clothes. You won't be wearing them
for a while.

PHYSICAL TEST (Men)
Go to the nearest drug store. Set your wallet on the counter. Ask the
clerk to help himself. Now proceed to the nearest food store. Go to
the head office and arrange for your paycheck to be directly
deposited to the store. Purchase a newspaper. Go home and read it quietly for
the last time.

Angels...........

2007-06-15T09:17:00.000-07:00

Last night was a turning point for me. I was called to sit with a client that was ready to go home. His basket of flowers was full. When I arrived to sit with the client I understood I had a long night in front of me. But one thing I noticed is that there were no angels present in his room. It was on my drive home that I realized why this was the case. Even though his physical body was still in that room, breathing and with a beating heart, what made him who he was as a person in this world was no longer present. He had already gone home to be with the Lord. And the angels had left with him. I sat with his physical body as it came to terms with the fact that the person inside had left it to its own devices. I noticed different things shutting down from an "outsiders" observations and when his breathing changed to indicate a final closure I woke his family. They came in and said their final good byes. This has been a whole new experience for me. And one, that oddly enough, I won't mind doing again and on the same token cannot do often.

Other clients I have sat with, ones that were going home soon, they had angels all around them. I could almost tangibly touch them. I could feel them come into the presence of the person, feel the comfort they have to offer. Feel the awesome presence that they bring to the air when they arrive - one by one or in groups. Yes, they really do this. When you are open to what is in the air around you, you can feel, touch, smell and even see them.

Remember today what I have said -- You and I may not always see eye to eye and we can disagree, but no matter what -- you are special to me. Tell those you are close to that you love them for the angels find you when its time to go home.

My words here are not eloquent as I would have liked them to be. I am tired and I think emotionally drained.

Many blessings and may the Lord be with you.
Heather

Satan's Meeting

2007-04-26T13:12:00.001-07:00

SATAN'S MEETING:____________________________________________
Satan called a worldwide convention of demons.

In his opening address he said,
"We can't keep Christians from going to church."

"We can't keep them from reading their Bibles and knowing the truth."

"We can't even keep them from forming an intimate relationship with
their savior."
"Once they gain that connection with Jesus, our power over them is broken."

"So let them go to their churches; let them have their covered dish
dinners, BUT steal their time, so they don't have time to develop a
relationship with Jesus Christ.."

"This is what I want you to do," said the devil:

"Distract them from gaining hold of their Savior and maintaining
that vital connection through out their day!"

"How shall we do this?" his demons shouted.

"Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and invent innumerable
schemes to occupy their minds," he answered.
"Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow, borrow, borrow."

"Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and the husbands to
work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours a day, so they can afford their
empty lifestyles."

"Keep them from spending time with their children."

"As their families fragment, soon, their homes will offer no escape
from the pressures of work!"

"Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear that still, small voice."

"Entice them to play the radio or cassette player whenever they drive."

To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going constantly in their home
and see to it that every store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical music constantly."
"This will jam their minds and break that union with Christ."

"Fill the coffee tables with magazines and newspapers."

"Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day."

"Invade their driving moments with billboards."
"Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order catalogs, sweepstakes,
and every kind of newsletter and promotional offering free products,
services and false hopes.."

"Keep skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and TV so their husbands
will believe that outward beauty is what's important, and they'll become
dissatisfied with their wives. "
"Keep the wives too tired to love their husbands at night."
"Give them headaches too! "

"If they don't give their husbands the love they need, they will
begin to look elsewhere."
"That will fragment their families quickly!"

"Give them Santa Claus to distract them from teaching their children
the real meaning of Christmas."
"Give them an Easter bunny so they won't talk about his resurrection
and power over sin and death."

"Even in their recreation, let them be excessive."

"Have them return from their recreation exhausted."

"Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect on God's
creation.

Send them to amusement parks, sporting events, plays, concerts, and
movies instead."

"Keep them busy, busy, busy!"

"And when they meet for spiritual fellowship, involve them in gossip
and small talk so that they leave with troubled consciences."

"Crowd their lives with so many good causes they have no time to
seek power from Jesus."

"Soon they will be working in their own strength, sacrificing their
health and family for the good of the cause."!

"It will work!"

"It will work!"
It was quite a plan!
The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing Christians
everywhere to get busier and more rushed, going here and there.

Having little time for their God or their families.

Having no time to tell others about the power of Jesus to change lives.

I guess the question is, has the devil been successful! in his schemes?

You be the judge!!!!!

Does "BUSY" mean: B-eing U-nder S-atan's Y-oke?

Please pass this on, if you aren't too busy!

Blogging again...

2007-04-04T16:42:00.000-07:00

Tomorrow is my birthday! And I had a wonderful birthday present!!!!! My sister sent me a letter. And anyone that knows anything about that whole situation knows what a miracle that is! I am thrilled to pieces. I would post a picture -- but I have not moved any pictures yet from the old computer to the new computer.

My son is a nut. Well, yeah, I realize that I have 5 boys but the youngest really takes the cake on many things. He is very cognitive and it shows on a regular basis. Today when we were doing the interview with a representative from an tech school I would like to attend he played with things and the representative noticed how quick Logan was to respond appropriately.

This evening Logan was dirty. We need to potty train him, but his response is less than cooperative right now. So, nasty stinky diaper. I could hear Logan from the bathroom -- "EWWWW That's Gross!!!" My only thought was, "Well, you are the one with the stink bomb bottom!"

So, that was our fun for today. I plan on writing my sister back as soon as possible. I will start tonite on her note and hopefully can send it out tomorrow along with three other packages I have been meaning to send for about a week now.

Many blessings fellow readers/bloggers! If you read this please take the time to comment. Thanks!

Afternoon Delight

2007-03-20T06:35:00.000-07:00

Spring Daffodils

The afternoon sun gave these beauties the shadows you see cast across them. I took this picture over a week ago and the flowers are already gone.

My son Logan is a hoot. For a nearly three yr old child he's got the memory of an elephant. About a month ago I went and paid the phone bill, while there in the lobby Logan forgot his airplane that I had gotten him from the store. When we returned to pay this months bill he REMEMBERED that he left his plane there in the lobby and searched it. When I mentioned to the customer service rep. what he was looking for she produced the plane from a drawer! That kid has a steel trap for a mind! Not many would remember where they left a toy a month later!

My husband returned from Seattle, Washington last night. It was a long, hard trip for him. However, the upside to this is now he's very interested in the area. Which I am thrilled! I want to move back to Washington because of so many reasons I can barely start to touch on here. The people, the culture, and the scenic views. I really miss those mountains.

Am off and running for the day -- getting my house clean one corner at a time!

HUGGLES AND MANY BLESSINGS EVERYONE!

Last falls visitor....

2007-03-17T14:53:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to post something fun. This butterfly is beautiful of course.

We have had some challenging times these last few days.

We are learning the three L's and the three R's.

L= listen, look and learn.
R = Request response reward.

I wanted to chitchat about more but am exhausted from today's events.

I took my husband to the airport for his little excursion out to the west coast (which secretly am hoping he falls in love with the area because I would love to move back out there.) We talked about airport stuff while we were there and I came up with that its not "prime realty" its "prime crime!" for what they charge to have an establishment on airport grounds. Geeez! But it made for an early start to my day. I was sleeping after returning home but my 12 yo woke me to ask for something and going back to sleep was not an option.

It would be my luck that it was raining when he arrived to Seattle. *sighs* LOL

Oh well.... hopefully tomorrow is a better day.

Many blessings!

My Boys! Well, 2 of em anyway!

2007-03-11T12:15:00.000-07:00

These two are my oldest and youngest sons. My oldest is 16 and the youngest is nearly 3. (3 weeks and counting til his birthday!) My oldest says, "OH BROTHER!" My ex-husband had for years asked me not to put up pictures of "our boys" so I had honored that until recently when I found pictures of the boys that I have custody of online at his new wifes myspace account. So, now he can just kiss my rear end! I will be putting up pictures of my kidlets over the next year now! Different things they are interested in and some candid shots of silly things they do.

The oldest took the youngest on the swing. Here you can see just how much they were enjoying the interaction on that silly rope swing. My youngest is a dare devil and goes where Angels fear to tread. He climbs everything and gets into all things possible.

Later on -- I will show you pictures of the Birthday boy! We have more celebrating time to come at the local Pizza place so I will have many pictures.

Have a great weekend! And Many Blessings!

Definitions 101 Wikipedia Style

2007-03-09T22:21:00.000-08:00

**** Disclaimer**** This is a letter that was written to my ex-husband. Sometimes he really doesn't think about the consequences of his actions.

Empathy (from the Greek, "to make suffer") is commonly defined as one's ability to recognize, perceive and directly experientially feel the emotion of another. As the states of mind, beliefs, and desires of others are intertwined with their emotions, one with empathy for another may often be able to more effectively define another's modes of thought and mood. Empathy is often characterized as the ability to "put oneself into another's shoes", or experiencing the outlook or emotions of another being within oneself, a sort of emotional resonance.

Parenting is the process of raising and educating a child from birth until adulthood. This is usually done in a child's family by the mother and/or father (i.e., the biological parents).

A parent is a father or mother; one who begets or one who gives birth to or nurtures and raises a child or a relative who plays the role of a guardian. The parent or guardian usually watch out for their kid and love them. Some, however, fail to do this, which is considered unacceptable in many societies.

The term adult describes any mature organism, but normally it refers to a human: one that is no longer a child / minor and is now either a man or a woman. Adulthood can be defined in terms of biology, law, personal character, or social status. These different aspects of adulthood are often inconsistent and contradictory. A person may be biologically an adult, and have adult behavioral characteristics but still be treated as a child if they are under the legal age of majority. Conversely one may legally be an adult but possess none of the maturity and responsibility that define adult character.

Grudge a deep-seated feeling of resentment or rancor provoked by some incident or situation; for example, being unwilling to forgive someone.

I received and read about the respect. You have already read about empathy, parenting and definition of an adult.

There is serious lacking in all three areas.

You were to teach respect. Perhaps a lesson in HOW to teach is in order.

Parenting -- is a trial and error process, and one can learn how to be a better parent by learning from mistakes. I think you need to take Parenting 101 over again.

You should have had empathy. Perhaps you have not been shown empathy. But I am fairly certain you have and took it for granted as well, especially since I know I have tried repeatedly to be empathetic.

Adult. For that one I am at a loss.

Grudge - something I am discouraging in "C" by teaching him that the results of it can kill his creativity and ability to grow. Something you can benefit learning about as well. (By the way, I don't hold a grudge against you -- but the respect thing is still and may always be an issue.)

"C" has many lessons to learn. And I do not begrudge your email to him and me about "respect". The above definitions and words are things that I am going to make a point of teaching him, along with respect. He will be taught to show respect whether or not he thinks that the receiver "deserves" it, because it has to start with someone taking that first step. Every day is a new opportunity to show a level of respect to those whom you think do not deserve it. Yes, I have little to no respect for you for many reasons of which every time I talk to you via phone or email you show how little respect you have for others. We had started to build a sense of rapport in conversations up until you lied to me about the checks. That totally blew things up and destroyed any sense of respect that I had started to have toward you. Which is really sad.

**** End letter ****

Many blessings everyone.

The lil ram kid

2007-03-07T12:02:00.000-08:00

I am hooked on this little guy. I have been calling him "Lil Bit" because he's so tiny. He's really no bigger than those chickens you see in the background. And he's always hungry. Or so he thinks. He will polish off up 6 ounces of milk and then shake his little body all over. Only after he shakes himself do you know he's full. Then its off to nap!

He's not mine to keep. But I will enjoy him while I can. I want to get my own goats. But I think I would prefer milk goats. Not to overly fond of raising my own meat in many respects. But am sure I could manage. I want to get chickens too. And asked Mechanic Man about getting some. Between that and starting a garden really need to get things in focus.

I have been sick recently but I don't really want to talk about that for now.

Many blessings everyone!

A post away.....

2007-03-07T06:56:00.000-08:00

Okay, I had planned to post yesterday.. and the day before and the day before that. Honest I had.....

I have been ill. And I hope to explain more soon -- but for now I am off and running once again for appointments and shopping.

I have also been busy with a lil ram goat that was taken from it's mom because mom was too young when she bred and she did not produce any milk for the hungry lil guy.

Come back soon for more on the newest saga.....

Many blessings.

A Refreshing Eye Opener

2007-03-02T05:50:00.000-08:00

This is one of the best explanations
of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen.
It's an explanation other people will understand.
A man went to a barbershop to have
his hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work,
they began to have a good conversation.
They talked about so many
things and various subjects.
When they eventually touched
on the subject of God,
the barber said: "I don't believe that God exists."
"Why do you say that?" asked the customer.
"Well, you just have to go out in the street
to realize that God doesn't exist.
Tell me, if God exists, would there
be so many sick people?
Would there be abandoned children?
If God existed, there would be
neither suffering nor pain.
I can't imagine loving a God
who would allow all of these things."
The customer thought for a moment,
but didn't respond because he didn't
want to start an argument.
The barber finished his job
and the customer left the shop.
Just after he left the barbershop,
he saw a man in the street with
long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard.
He looked dirty and unkempt.
The customer turned back and entered
the barber shop again and he said to the barber:
"You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber.
"I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!"
"No!" the customer exclaimed.
"Barbers don't exist because if they did,
there would be no people with
dirty long hair and untrimmed beards,
like that man outside."
"Ah, but barbers DO exist!
What happens is, people do not come to me."
"Exactly!"- affirmed the customer.
"That's the point! God, too, DOES exist!
What happens, is, people don't go to Him
and do not look for Him.
That's why there's so much pain
and suffering in the world."
If you KNOW God exists,
send this to other people---
If you think God doesn't exist,
then don't worry with it!

BE BLESSED & BE A BLESSING

Beautiful guest or terrible pest?

2007-02-22T00:00:00.000-08:00

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The monarch you see here fluttered into our camp shortly after we had enjoyed a birthday cake for my son T.J. It originally landed on my husband's sleeve as you can see in the second picture. After that it started going after chocolate frosting on fingers of the boys. It spent the better part of an hour seeking out chocolate on my son Caleb's hands. As it found each spot it would dip its little mouth onto the chocolate it found. It was also fascinated by my husband's shirt. The only thing I can wager on that one is that my husband had gotten hot and sweaty. The minerals from his sweat would attract the monarch as well because they look for such things in all sorts of places. After what seemed like ages we finally got it settle in some nearby trees, but I really had to work at shooing it away.

Evening Skies are my Favorites

2007-02-21T10:16:00.000-08:00

I love to get pictures of the sky and since I work at night I mostly get sunsets that are stunning. At least to me. Both of these pictures were taken a few months ago, but as per work and family life I have not had much time to post. I will work on that now that I have asked for less hours at work. I will be out of pocket for work Thursday, Fri., Sat. and Sun. I hope to post again on Monday, but as I have a tough schedule Thur and Fri it will most likely be on Tuesday before I post again!

Enjoy and many blessings!

A Stress Relief!

2007-02-20T15:58:00.000-08:00

Tumbling Bears!
Check it out! FUN!

CENSORED - scrotum - but its okay to say "nut sack"!

2007-02-20T06:18:00.000-08:00

Recently it was brought to my attention that a word has caused the ban of a book in school and public libraries. The book is called "The Higher Power of Lucky" and written by a children's author and is "age appropriate" for the normal learning ability of a 5th grade 10 yr old child. The word is scrotum - an appropriate term for a male genitalia body part.

O.k., consider this and this is something I have heard often.
An educated man is a dangerous man.
And the average American has the education of a 5th grader. (Ah, the wonder of our government..... )

Much of this post is about the power of words, morality and education. If you are offended by the title then move on. Comments that slander will be deleted. Comments that offer constructive criticism will be considered but not necessarily responded to.

This is just another fight of someone trying to make a name for themselves -- Oh, we saved the world from religion, choices and education! But that is for another time.....

Censorship over a word....
Librarians making a name for themselves....
What will be next??

Cats and dogs living together peacefully???

Because our culture has made "sex" a bad word this is the kind of stuff we have to live with in our blessed country.

Scrotum: the external pouch that in most male mammals contains the testes.
Testes : two egg shaped objects located in the scrotum of a male animal.

Sex anatomy education for a Librarian that wants to censor this book --

What's a scrotum? (as stated from the average child of say 10 yrs of age or less)

Boys have a pouch near their boy parts that contain testes which is part of what makes them a boy.

And if a girl asks, "Why don't we have a scrotum?"

"You do not need one. You know you are made different so instead you have ovaries which are inside your abdomen."

Sounds pretty simple to me... and age appropriate. They don't need to know what's there above and beyond that, or what the purpose is.... unless you think that the learning ability of the child is where they will understand what you try to tell them!

Oh MY GOD! SEX in A Book for CHILDREN!

The New York Times posted this about this book and word scrotum -- you can read it here.

Yes, I understand that children are going to understand different things at different ages. The older they get the more they begin to understand so long as they are taught as they grow. You teach colors, numbers, names, age, letters, shapes, and fingers, toes, ears, mouth -- oh wait, those are body parts..... CENSORED! Seriously though, if you teach children about the world around them - just the basic facts -- and not what you believe to be right and wrong - its about building an understanding of language - what words mean and using the right word for the right object.

My 16 yo son made a comment to a girl a few years ago that was sexually inappropriate -- he repeated something he had heard a senior class mate say. He did not understand the context of what he was saying and he nearly got expelled. In response to what he did we have encouraged him to come talk to us about things he's over hearing other people say, that its o.k. to come and ask us, "what does '____' mean?" *fill in the blank with what you think is not appropriate* We let him know we would not be mad at him for repeating it to us because he needs to understand what it means and why repeating it is going to cause him trouble. Or if what he's hearing he doesn't know the meaning of he can come ask us and we can teach him what it means and how to use it in proper context so that he doesn't get in trouble or look foolish. He is able to pronounce words of all types so therefor he should be able to understand what those words mean.

Now, then, instead of censoring our culture any further by encouraging ignorance of the meaning of words and the objects they are related to, teach the words -- and offer sound morality. Instead of censoring a book because its got a word in it, mark it with something that shows what age group its intended for. Let the parent make the choice if they want to do a lesson on anatomy that the youngster will understand.

I just had another thought -- age appropriate is exactly what? I know adult age people with the mentality of a "normal learning 5 yr old" - but stopped learning beyond what a "normal" 5 yr old can learn. My best friend works with a 14 yr old that cannot learn beyond what a "normal" 6 month old can. So what is "age appropriate" them. Or should it be learning ability appropriate?????? Oh the fights that can stir up!!!!!

Librarians out there censoring for my children.. shame on you! It's my job to teach my children about the rights and wrongs of this world. It's my job to decide if a book is age appropriate for my children. If YOU want to let me know there is a word in a book that will require me to teach my children about anatomy then by all means when you see the children's rated book in my stack of literature to check out then tell me! But DO NOT CENSOR FOR ME! I will make the choice of what is truly appropriate for my child to learn based on what I know the child's ability to learn is.

Another problem I thought of. Here in America what do you think of when you hear the word "rubber"?

Me?

Based on what I understand about our culture and what I know we are taught -- its another word for "condom".

In Britain, its another word for what an American would refer to as an eraser.

In America "a rubber" is slang - and generally because of our "sexuality training" -- its derogatory! In Britain "a rubber" is a tool you use to remove lead pencil markings from paper and other objects!

Let me think - the "normal average age of a 5th grade child with appropriate learning ability" is 10 yrs old. My youngest son will start kindergarten after he turns 5 yrs old because his birthday -- so in effect he will be 6 for 1st grade, 7 for 2nd, 8 for 3rd, 9 for 4th, and viola -- 10 for 5th grade!!!! Ah, the blessings of an education to deduce that little tidbit of information, and to have the ability to tell you all about it! In big words no less.

And while we are at it , let the librarians censor all those books out there that show murder and rape and anything else that is doing the world an injustice from the shelves of our "public" libraries! And trust me I have read an "age appropriate" book that had

*gasps*

murder, rape, kidnapping, death and many of the other acts of life that can be construed as "wrong" from a public library. Would I let my 10 yr old read that book?? Most likely not, but then its a good possibility that he's not going to be interested anyway!

I am being sarcastic. Do you understand what "sarcastic" means? Even my 5 yr old understands what "sarcastic" means. Not a Webster definition of it, but a definition on his level of saying something in a mean way because you are mad or hurt. Better yet, I say BAN IT FROM BOOKS! Sarcasm is bad bad bad!

Many blessings to you .... no sarcasm and no censorship.

Friday.... nonsense

2007-02-16T10:31:00.000-08:00

Hello again!

Yesterday was an interesting day. It started out like a normal going to go pay bills, run errands kind of day.

My first stop gas and kerosene. So far so good. Next I drove clear across the county -- I have to pay my phone bill over there. I went in and payed the bill. Came out and a fella in a small black truck towing a trailer was over at the drop box. O.k., no biggie -- except for one notable thing. He was in an awful dang hurry. Rushed his little truck and trailer right out into the intersection without so much as batting an eyelash that I was on the street he was going to cross. And off he went, darting as fast as he could through intersections and around traffic. One word - dangerous. I mumbled to myself that I certainly hoped he didn't get hurt or hurt anyone else with this obvious reckless driving.

Next stop - insurance. Which happens to be not so very far from the phone company. Lucky me huh?

As I am making my way down the main road way who do I happen to see on the side of the road? You guessed it -- its the little black truck hauling the trailer guy. And he's managed to over heat his little black beast that he was so desperate to get rolling so fast.

My thoughts on this -- I wished that this guy remained safe and that those around him would be safe even though he was being so careless. And what I got for my efforts was him being stuck on the side of the road!

Poor fella..... Now maybe in the future he will chill out on that little engine.

Many blessings! Remember to think positive about those whom are reckless and you may find your answer very quickly.

And this is a true story!

It's me again....

2007-02-15T12:18:00.000-08:00

so, things once again have been crazy for me. I have not had much time off and I am praying about it. Seems if I want something bad enough praying works better than asking. And just let me point out that praying a prayer of thank You for _____. You fill in the blank actually works better than asking for it in the first place. So, I will be praying for less working hours -- that I am home at least three nights a week.

There is plenty going on. My husband has been working long days at the new racing shop he is at and he loves it! I have started playing around with materials/crafty stuff to make some butterfly's. I already learned how to manufacture the material to get nice clean wings done.

The boys are in school as they should be. My littlest one will begin potty training soon. He's starting to show interest in going potty on the potty chair. YAY!! Soon no more diapers! And I hope that I don't have to raise my grandkidlets!

Tomorrow?? I hope to get pictures posted. And to clean out the camera as it is due for it... just another thing to add to my growing list of things to accomplish and get. I went shopping today and I already have a list a mile long.

And now my favorite bloggers list for this week --
Chrystal's Blog is well worth reading and a giggle a mile a minute.
The Pioneer Woman - Ree recently had a photo contest and she got a zillion hits. She's alot of fun to read too. And I recommend catching up on the last week of posts so you can get her DELISH recipes for Lasagna and Chocolate cake!

Hope you are having a blessed week, keeping warm and safe!

Ages Ago...

2007-01-30T03:03:00.000-08:00

I used to actually try to post every few days. Recently I have not been so keen on posting. I am going to try to start posting again. But no promises. I got my schedule for the next two weeks and its not very pretty. I like getting hours but this is crazy! I did have to ask for a specific day off so I can take CPR training. I am sure the client way to my west will be thrilled. I, however, am not.

By the way what is 145 minus 12? 133 is it? That is how many hours I will be putting in over the next two weeks. The company I work for has grown by leaps and bounds! 1 yr ago at this time I was getting oh, maybe 100 hours every two weeks which was keen. Now, because we don't really have the staff to support the hours we are getting, I am getting more hours away from home then I am getting at home. I will keep you posted! (maybe, sometimes sleep becomes priority)

What has happened since before Christmas -- well we all know what a holiday crunch Christmas can be. So that is kind of self explanatory. Since Christmas I have gone and rescued my 16 yr old son from what sounds like pure hell. Not surprising really since I knew what he was getting into when he wanted to go live with his dad. Now, I know full good and well that Mr.Dramatic (I.E. My 16 yr old son) is like, some of it sounds completely fish story and much of it I know is not. I had to deal with the ex for a good 8 yrs -- he's truly not changed very much. And the step-mom the boy had to deal with -- my limited experiences with her leave a great deal to be desired. That covers week 1 of January. Since then we have been puttering along surviving the new addition back into the home, working like crazy, and being sick. I hate cedar season by the way. I suppose a week's worth of headache (literally) is better than say, pneumonia or bronchitis. Which is what I have dealt with in the past.

So, back on track, ready to blog again -- and bringing you more fun from the house of all boys! (Yes, I am now out-numbered 6 to 1. What was I thinking?! 36yr old, 16 yr old, 14 yr old, 12 yr old, 5 yr old, and 2 yr old -- all male!)

Many Blessings Everyone!

Red Shirt Friday. Please Pass Along

2006-12-17T14:31:00.000-08:00

We've probably all see this.. But the Red shirt thing
is new to me..

Read below...

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together. After we boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in First Class (across from me),and inquired if he was heading home.

No, he responded.

Heading out I asked?

No. I'm escorting a soldier home.

Going to pick him up?

No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq I'm taking him home to his family.

The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn't know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier's family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days. I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, Thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.

Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom. "Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of the United States Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign."

Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American.

So here's a public Thank You to our military Men and Women for what you do so we can live the way we do.

Red Fridays.

Very soon, you will see a great many people wearing Red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called the "silent majority." We are no longer silent, and are voicing our love for God, country and home in record breaking numbers. We are not organized, boisterous or overbearing.

Many Americans, like you, me and all our friends,simply want to recognize that the vast majority of America supports our troops. Our idea of showing solidarity and support for our troops with dignity and respect starts this Friday -- and continues each and every Friday until the troops all come home, sending a deafening message that ... every red-blooded American who supports our men and women afar, will wear something red.

By word of mouth, press, TV -- let's make the United States on every Friday a sea of red much like a homecoming football game in the bleachers. If every one of us who loves this country will share this with acquaintances, coworkers, friends, and family, it will not be long before the USA is covered in RED and it will let our troops know the once "silent" majority is on their side more than ever, certainly more than the media lets on.

The first thing a soldier says when asked "What can we do to make things better for you?" is ."We need your support and your prayers." Let's get the word out and lead with class and dignity, by example, and wear something red every Friday.

IF YOU AGREE -- THEN SEND THIS ON.

If they knew what was good for them...

2006-12-14T16:52:00.000-08:00

My oldest boy that lives with us is talking like my husband. I don't nessecarily think this is a good thing. Why you ask?

My husband is notoriously a smart ass.

Tonite I asked him to find one of the Cars character cars we have around the house some where. He reaches across me and picks up my mechanical pencil with that character on it!

I looked at him like he's lost it. He just grins and says,
"well I found it didn't i?"

If you know what's good for you; you will leave the room now.

He left laughing!

Honestly, I know they learn things from us..
but I think I need to have a talk with Mechanic Man about his humor.......

Til later!

Cedar and Me

2006-12-12T15:41:00.000-08:00

Are not friends.

Every year at this time I have a headache 24 hours a day 7 days a week until the cedar dies out of blooming.

I will be living on pain relievers, decongestants and antihistamines.

And its getting harder and harder to get the right medications that help me. Sudafed is one of the ones that I take on a regular basis or I end up with bronchitis.

There really is not anything funny about being sick...

I wish I could turn my sinuses in for something better....

*sniffles

Happy New Year.

He should have been a fish.....

2006-12-12T08:17:00.000-08:00

Logan loves water. If I am bathing he's got to climb in. Well, if ANYONE IN A FIFTY MILE RADIUS IS IN WATER he has to be in it too!

I cannot count the number of times I have had to float Noah's Ark in my bathroom floor just to get to the tub that is now OVERFLOWING with water just to pull the plug.

And Logan -- instead of gasping for water on the bathroom floor is WAILING his displeasure at the water being drained.

Oh, and I don't have to worry too much about him being in soaking wet clothes -- those are usually in the LAKE of water we have all over the rest of the house.

Not that it matters anyway -- doesn't matter what the temperature is. He's happy to be NEKKID and WET!

I will have to build a pool house just for him... heated water for those of us who are not fond of being both wet and COLD!

Happy Holidays everyone... I have to go fish him out of the kitchen sink now.

I don't know why I bother!

2006-12-11T18:51:00.000-08:00

I really have no idea what to do about my 2 1/2 yr old son Logan. Honest to God - I do have clean clothes that fit his 2 yr old body. But you wouldn't know it everytime that boy walks out the door in nothing but a diaper! Oh, and it doesn't matter if it is 105 degrees or -100 degrees he prefers being NEKKID!

I dressed him in a cute little sleeper outfit not 15 minutes ago, prior to coming in here and reading my evening dose of blogs. I look up and here he comes all smiles and guess what?! No sleeper!

I asked him, "where are your clothes?!" He grins at me and promptly turns around. Moments later he brings me the sleeper -- basically balled up into itself. "Here mommy." I untangle the legs and arms from the body of the sleeper and call Logan to me. He HELPS me put it back on him.

As he's leaving the room he's pulling the zipper down to his naval!

Do any of you have velcro -- you know the kind that I can glue to his body and maybe keep some type of threads on him so he doesnt catch a death of a cold???

I am avoiding my housework.....

2006-12-11T08:15:00.000-08:00

A Cool Pic Blog! Check it out. I was amazed at the pictures of things I saw there!

Today I want you to go outside if the sun is shining and look at it with your eyes closed and take deep cleansing breaths! If you belive in a "Higher Power" think of it as His/Her beautiful light shining into your heart and filling you with contentment!

Yesterday I was just not feeling up to par. So I sat at the computer most of the day and read this blog's archives -- Crystal's blog - Boobs, injuries, and Dr.Pep* I laughed til my sides hurt. My 13 yo son was extremely disappointed that I would not let him read "the jokes". Crystal is honest and brilliant at expressing herself with words -- and simply put it would be over the 13 yo's head and just like her own 13 yo there are just somethings you cannot explain to a kid his age!

My husband, bless his heart, told me I should write more openly similar to what she does. I told him I censor myself often since I was not sure how he would feel about me writing about our little family -- and its own issues. I have been censored a bunch in my life -- my first ex-husband is an a-hole. And God forbid I express any of my needs. And my second husband -- his idea of censoring left a great deal to be desired. So, maybe I might work through those issues and express myself here more often.

Happy Holidays!

Its been a long week...

2006-11-15T17:34:00.000-08:00

And its only Wednesday.

I am exhausted. My week really started on Friday last week. My family was invited to go camping at a BEAUTIFUL Campgrounds not very far from Rock Springs milage wise -- however, the last 6 miles to the camp takes about 20 minutes because its not paved. Very remote and very pretty.

I never got to finish this post. So am going to go ahead and upload it and start over on a new one later today!

Hopefully you will stay tuned and will see what I can come up with for the last month of not posting.

Being Called Home.

2006-11-10T09:57:00.000-08:00

I look at death in a very different perspective than many. Most hate death, dispise it, fear it. I do not. I look forward to my "calling home". My heart today is both sad and happy. A client was "called home" last night. I will miss her as she was one of those kinds that reaches out and gently touches your heart and leaves an awesome impression. I didn't get to say good bye yet. Yet, I am happy for her too. She's been "called home" to her family and friends that she missed so dearly. See, she was the last of her "family" - no relatives to speak of close by to her heart.

Her basket of flowers was full and I will not soon forget how she touched my heart and my family. And even though I only knew her a very few short weeks she and I became fast friends. I did visit her on my own time... and I will get the chance to say goodbye.

Many blessings...
Remember to tell those you love how you feel.
Say your sorry even when you are mad because you NEVER know when it may be the last thing you do get to say.

I was able to give her a hug the last time I saw her, and I brought her a treat of homemade banana bread... and I got to say, " Love you and get well soon." And she is well as she is now with those long since passed over before her.

Just remember, that even though you and I may not see eye to eye -- that I do care and hope the best of everything for you.

And yes, I do realize in the past I have grouched about my ex-husbands - neither of which will I allow to cause me any more harm, but I do not wish harm on them. (They have enough of their own problems and cause enough of their own harm to themselves. They don't need any assistance.)

Roscoe Is Home

2006-11-09T11:24:00.000-08:00

I brought him home today. And he's showing that he's a fast learner. I have already discovered that he wants to scent mark the house. Not a good idea for him, so I am keeping him close at hand and when I cannot do that I have his own "room" set up for him to lay down in when I am busy with things he cannot be a part of. We are going to fix up a small run for him next week that I can put him outside for short times and not worry about him. The Cats in residence are NOT impressed -- but they will get used to him in short enough time.

I will not be blogging this weekend, and will start again on Monday -- with pictures of our upcoming adventure for the weekend.

Stay tuned.

You would think

2006-11-07T21:38:00.000-08:00

That one raccoon would be more than this household can tolerate. However, something was amiss this evening. I could hear things in the bathroom -- and when I went to investigate I was not so delighted to find one has managed to get into my bathroom. We have a hole under the tub -- one that I assure you when I FIND it is going to be nailed shut with a few choice boards! Now, then we have a trap set with a nice chunk of deli beef just so that that rascal has to get into the trap and pull on that meat to get it loose.

Pictures will follow soon.... darn it.

And I will post Monday's pictures of our new addition that will come home on Thursday. Roscoe will make a delightful addition!

Many blessings ... sleepy time here.

Time flies....

2006-11-07T07:08:00.000-08:00

Check this out......
Time Flies.

Have a blessed day!

Weekend Dog Blogging # 59

2006-11-04T11:30:00.000-08:00

What does this lil monster have to do with WDB'ing?
Read on to find out!

When I arrived home from work on Thursday morning I was greeted to this raccoon you see in the trap. He hissed. He growled. He lunged at anyone that approached the trap. My 11 yo son had set the trap in hopes to catch a white feral tom that has taken up residence on the property. Instead he found himself face to face with what has to be the meanest creature in the area. Since I have young chilren -- boys -- that go where angels fear to tread I could not exactly let this animal remain in residence nearby. Simply put - He had to go.

I called animal control when they opened up at 8 am. At around 9:45 am the AC officer called me for directions. As we are curious people I wanted to see how he was going to wrangle that raccoon from the trap to his truck. I set Logan down in a safe place where he could observe too. The AC officer loaded the raccoon into a special cage on the back of his truck -- but also on the truck was an adorable brown mutt that had strayed from home. So, the seed was planted. And I could not stop thinking about that dog. I knew if he was not claimed by owners that he could very well find a new home. And I liked him.

Friday morning rolls around -- and I am off to go to the shelter. When I arrive at the shelter where the brown dog was taken I learned that his family had called to claim him. I was grateful he had a family that wanted him but sad too. I liked that little rascal. So we looked at all the other dogs they had there.

Did I mention that a kennel full of dogs can be deafening??

Anyway -- there were several I did like. But they just didnt feel "right"..... so, since we have several shelters in our area I opted to go to my next favorite shelter. All the way on the other side of town.

We arrived at the other shelter and I immediately made my way to the dog kennel. We were met with dogs galore. Each in their own cage. They were all large dogs in the first 8 to 12 cages and there were two staff persons cleaning the individual cages out. As I reached the end of the kennel center isle I came across the face you see in the next photo. 17 pounds of wire haired terrier -- and the only one in the place that was not barking. I asked to see him in the adoption room.... to be continued below the picture......

Meet Roscoe!

Before we left on Friday I filled out the neccessary papers to adopt this adorable little dog. He's great with Logan -- whom he will spend the most time with and he's got a wonderful nature. I went to go see him today and show him to my older boys. Everyone loves him. I learned on Friday that he had been dumped outside the shelter fence a few weeks ago. And he's about 8 months old. He will get to come home on Thursday -- and yes, I am counting down the hours!

And yes, unlike the little brown dog with no collar or tag that strayed from home and was luckily claimed by his family, I already have a collar and a tag with Roscoe's name and new home and phone number on it. Dogs will wander if allowed to and since he's going to be new to our home -- just in case -- since I do have children that seem to have dragon tails and do not close doors... I knew that spending the little extra on a tag would be well worth my while. I hope to have better pictures on Monday of our new addition.

Weekend Dog Blogging is hosted by Sweet Nick's. Please visit her for this weekends round up of adorable doggy stories!

Friday..... whatevah...

2006-11-03T12:48:00.000-08:00

Okay, so today and yesterday morning have been very interesting. When I arrived home from work yesterday I was informed we had trapped a raccoon! Now, as I had not set the trap I was surprised. I later learned that my 11 yo had indeed set the trap to see if we could catch a stray white tom cat. I was not about to release the raccoon since he'd learned that we were a food source of sorts. I have cats -- they eat outside -- raccoons will steal the food from the cats. And if I got anywhere near the cage the raccoon of course got very upset and would lunge at me. No way was I going to open that cage and risk getting bit or clawed by that little demon. Nor did I want something that aggressive living on the property since I have a 2 yr old that fears just about nothing. I called animal control.

After waiting for an hour and a half the officer from AC called. Now as we like to observe things I knew that him getting this nasty creature out was not going to be easy or fun. However, it was interesting. Logan of course had to watch too -- so I set him up where he would not be in the way at all. The officer was not going to let that lil demon get away. After he wrangled the creature into a cage on the truck I noticed he had an adorable dog in another part of the truck -- kind of an open cage in the back of the truck -- a stray with a home I was later to find out.

I went to the shelter today and found many dogs that I liked but they were not "just right". So, off to the no kill humane society on the other side of town. And as of Thursday next week I will be the happy owner of a beautiful wire haired terrier mix named Roscoe!

I will post pictures as soon as I have him!

Delays delays....

2006-11-02T06:55:00.000-08:00

I had seen these pretty cakes shaped as pumpkins in magazines over the past few months. Both Country Living magazine and then Family Circle featured different versions of a cake to represent the fall harvest of these wonderful pumpkins. I opted to make the Family circle version and you can see the results below! I have been trying for three days -- Since Halloween to upload these pictures and either life or blogger has had its own ideas.

His, Mine and Ours..... An Explaination.

2006-10-21T07:53:00.000-07:00

This is just to give you an idea of the "His, Mine and Ours" equalling out to be 9 children for my family --
Way back in May of 1990 I got married to my first husband. Now he's gratefully an Ex for many reasons, on both our parts. At any rate while we were married we had 3 children together.
Calvin - now to be forever known as Challenge Child was born to us in December 1990. One week early and proved to be that challenge from the word go. I was inexperienced and only was able to nurse him for about 2 weeks.
Based on what I learned while raising him solo as Terry went to sea often I really think we need to involve older teens in helping raise younger children so that they have a better understanding of the huge responsiblity it is to take care of a growing learning little person whom is soley dependant on you for their EVERY SINGLE need.

Two and half years later with a planned pregnancy I had Caleb -- and he's my genius child.

Less than one year after Caleb was born I became pregnant again with TJ. He was born in November of 1994. He's know as Tonka many of the times because of the fact that he would take a spill or do something that other kids would HOWL and he would come up laughing!

That's the first 3...

In 1998 I got divorced to what ended in a bitter fued type relationship with my first husband. He's got issues with me, and I have issues with him. Those things won't ever change. However, until 1, 2 and 3 turn 18 we have to deal as best as possible in order to keep the kids in some sort of balance.

June 2000 I was married to the man that eventually proved just how mean and hateful his heart truely is. Actually... nevermind.. that's another story.. but at any rate I soon found out I was pregnant again.

Stephen was born in March 2001. He's recently started school and is loving it. My husband at the time had children from a previous marriage and this is where my adopted daughter fits into my life. Britney is currently a full grown woman, but when I met her she was 13 and precocious! Still full of life and not quite as precocious she calls me as often as she can and calls me, "Mom". I love her dearly and try work at being a sounding board for her and a "safety net" for things going on in her world.

Now we are at five.

As the time for my second divorce approached my second husband found that my "stand up" attitude was more than he cared to tolerate and tried to extinguish the very thing he had originally married me for. In 2003 my divorce was finalized. I had met my third husband by then -- but we were not looking for what would eventually be a permanent relationship as such as we have now.

My third husband has 3 children from a previous marriage. One girl - his eldest, and two boys that are close in age to my second and third sons. I won't go into much detail about them as I will "my" kids as we do spend time with them but I simply don't know them as well as my own.

That makes 6, 7 and 8.

April 2004 and on my 34th birthday no less I had Logan. He's an intelligent and adorable child that I have to keep busy all the time. He's learning things as fast as I can teach him.

And he makes 9.

So, now you know what and how my count for kidlets is 9. And I love them all dearly as individuals and each in thier own right is a "favorite".

#1 is 15 yrs old
#2 is 13 yrs old
#3 is 11 yrs old
#4 is 5 yrs old
#5 is 20 yrs old
#6 is 13 yrs old
#7 is 11 yrs old
#8 is 9 yrs old
#9 is 2 yrs old

It's kind of odd to see that 20 yr old in there due to the age factor -- so I get these funny looks when I rattle off the ages of "my kids". After a quick explaination of her "impromptu adoption" it makes sense. I kind of love seeing the reactions before people understand..

Hope you have a great day!

50 Things about Me.

2006-10-19T08:29:00.000-07:00

1. I used to be an introvert, now am a quiet extrovert.
2. I am known for my frank attitude toward many different things.
3. I have a sense of humor, if slow sometimes.
4. I have 11 cats, all of which are loveable fixed purr bags.
5. I have, in the past, had as pets - a snake, squirrel and trantula.
6. I have curly hair and have given up on ever attempting to control it.
7. I have given birth to 5 kids -- all boys.
8. I have 9 kids if you count the "His, Mine, and Ours."
9. I know ASL enough to get me by, and learning more. (The "finger" doesn't count.)
10. I can be a huge flirt if in the right mood, otherwise I bite.
11. I have never had a tattoo, and the one time I had a temp tat my 1st husband had kittens.
12. I avoid all dairy products because its best that way.
13. I never get bored, there is always something to learn and do.
14. I love the sun, but do not tan. I burn.
15. I collect Breyer Model Horses.
16. I am teaching myself to do paper quilling.
17. I understand Brit humor thanks to my DH -- whom is of Brit decent.
18. I love to bake bread -- and have made 9 loaves over the past three days.
19. I have seen a western sunset over the Pacific Ocean. It was BEAUTIFUL!
20. My favorite saying is, "Everything is carved in jello. Jello gets hot it melts. when it cools again you start carving all over."
21. My favorite quote is, "Do Not Meddle in the Affairs of Dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup."
22. I know what its like to have my world rocked in the best way possible.
No one warned me it was addictive?
23. I have an assoc. degree in CIS.
24. I am going back to college for an eventual RN degree.
25. I work with seniors.
26. Since I am a mom to 5 boys I have caught all kinds of creatures to teach them about such animals.
27. I have found rocks in my dryer thanks to those 5 boys.
28. I have also found assundry automotive tools and parts in my washer thanks to my husband.
29. I have a pen collection in my bedroom that my husband started.
30. Besides collecting model horses, I also collect model cars for said mechanic husband.
31. I love to get plants -
32. but often kill them due to my work schedule. (English Ivy is very delicate.)
33. I have two soul mates - one male (DH), one female (adopted sister)
34. I love thunderstorms and will go to sleep during storms.
35. I once had a close call with a lightening strike only 10 ft away from me. - the tree died. I found the bark blown up to 100 ft. away.
36. I have been on a U.S. submarine underway for a dependants cruise.
37. Angles and Dangles was an interesting experience -- on said dependant cruise.
38. I have been married 3 times -- third time was a charm. (not exactly proud of # times, but definitely happy of the outcome.)
39. I believe in woman's ability to homebirth.
40. Of the 5 boys -- two births were completely natural, with as little medical intervention as possible.(one homebirthed, one in hospital - very little intervention.)
41. I am an abuse survivor - and talk about my experiences openly.
42. I photograph sunsets. Missed a dandy last nite.. darn batteries.
43. After 5 boys, No, am not trying for a girl. (tubal ligation is a blessing.)
44. I love to play in the rain and still splash in mud puddles.
45. I trust in my 6th sense more than most people realize.
46. I know what angels are -- and have seen, felt and heard them.
47. Prayer has worked miracles in my life many times.
48. I have gaurdian angels and know them by sight.
49. I have a-symptomatic allergic reactions to latex and sulfa based drugs. (And should have been hospitalized last time I did have an allergic reaction.. sheesh!)
50. I hate politics -- so often I don't fit in. *sighs*

Weekend Cat Blogging #71

2006-10-14T07:20:00.000-07:00

Coral loves to hang out in my car. This is how we found her when we had finished cleaning the carpet in the car. She takes every opportunity to get in the car she can. This also means that when I get home from errands or work and the car is warm, you can bet she's one of the first ones to find the warmest spot she can. You can check out other feline friends at Rosa's Yummy Yums.

Have a great day everyone! Check back in for other blogging ideas! I hope to get back into WFMW hosted by Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer, and so many more.

Dry Creek Bed!

2006-10-13T08:01:00.000-07:00

This creek bed is Verde Creek at Camp Verde. (Yes, lots of green... for now anyway.) Normally you cannot walk across the creek bed as normally there is about 2 feet of water flowing across it. Right now though, as you can see -- the bed is dry. Or nearly so. We have had recent rains and I wonder what this looked like BEFORE recent rains. By the way, I am standing in the center of the creek bed -- which under conditions I have normally seen it in, would of course, not be possible. If you look at the creek bed wall you can easily see where the water line is normally at. We need quite a bit of rain to fill up this little creek bed again. I was so shocked to see this creek so dry. This just goes to show really how bad the drought has been for Texas Hill Country.

A New Photo Stop Blog

2006-10-12T20:02:00.000-07:00

I recently decided that though I love to blog -- I wanted an outlet for my picture taking skills. I am a novice -- and I love to take pictures -- I put them up when they are clear -- the fuzzy ones get dumped -- unless of course I think its neat kind of fuzzy. I have been playing with my camera today especially -- and hopefully can continue to find things of interest to take pictures of. I have found I love close-ups. This is thanks to Ree at Confessions of a Pioneer Woman. And then I have things that are not so close up as well. I will be going on a trip in a month.. and I look forward to the picture taking possibilities there. You can check out my new blog at Heather's Photo Fun. I already have some 6 pictures posted just from today! I had fun with the camera -- and then cleaned up shop. (IE deleted all the fuzzy rejects.) Tomorrow I will show the pictures of the Verde Creek that I promised.. I reviewed them and am still just shocked. Even with recent rains the creek is a dry bed for the most part. Wow. Have a great evening!

Pictures to share...

2006-10-12T13:11:00.000-07:00

I love to visit Pioneer Woman from time to time. She's been doing close ups of many things. I thought it would be okay to share some of the close ups I would try my hand at and I am not disappointed. This pretty yellow flower is near the river not 4 blocks from my home. I backed out a bit and you can see the result in the next picture.

Below you see another variety of flower along the same stretch of river that I took the above pictures at. I also went exploring at one of my favorite creeks and I am going to show you pictures of it tomorrow. I was seriously alarmed at the extent of just how bad the drought has been here. The creek bed normally flowing is stale and stagnant. It's rather shocking. Back again tomorrow with the creek bed edition.

The beginning or end?

2006-10-05T12:10:00.000-07:00

I took this on my way into work. A wonderful sunset to the start of a work day. I am trying to remember to take my camera with me where ever I go as I have seen some rather spectacular skies as of late. And somethings that I wish I had the opportunity to get pictures of as well.

What do these pens have in common with the one below?

They are from my husband's place of work. He seems to collect them! I thought we had this little issue fixed when he left CarQuest. But seems now that he's going to be doing additional things besides just repairs at the new site, he's also going to be helping in the office. Which means pens get tucked into his shirt pocket, come home and stay to LIVE! The only problem I have with this is the picture below -- I only have a limited amount of room for so many of these little additions that move in and don't bother to pay rent! (Well, okay they help to write out the rent reciept.) I have in the past collected all the errant CQ pens and taken them back to the store. I had a half gallon baggie full. Yes, I am serious. Darn things multiplied like rabbits!

I love Recipezaar. You can find recipes for just about anything you can think of there. Not everything is of course there, but there are many many recipes to choose from. Today I made Country White Bread. We, Logan and I, polished off one whole loaf all to ourselves. Perhaps there should be a warning on the site!! This could be dangerous to the waist line! This is some really good bread. Best I have made at home as of yet. The only other thing I am going to start doing is buying distilled water to bake with. The water that comes from the wells and underground reserviors is heavy with calcium and other minerals that inhibit the yeast and other leavening ingredients from working like they should.

It's not what you think....

2006-10-03T20:56:00.000-07:00

My 11 yo has a special touch with Pause. He was cuddling her in his lap and she went to sleep just like you see her here! She snoozed quite happily like that for a good half hour. He even laughed when I took the picture and all she did was open a single eyeball. Gave us both this deadpan look and went back to sleep! I kid you not!

All in all I have had a busy week of it. And I had planned to blog more, however, I am developing a migraine.. its just getting started. So am off to find meds and my pillow. I hope that you have a wonderful week! And if you drop in please leave me a note.

Camera woes and stuff!

2006-10-01T13:05:00.000-07:00

Shhhhh... I am hiding.

Here you see adorable lovable Ms.Pause. She's had turned into a lovable purring making-dough kind of kitty cat. She's the kind of cat that everyone would love to have. She enjoys being held and she gets her motor just a rumbling, she will even come to you when called -- by name no less.

As you can see I do have the camera in working order again on the computer. YAY for me! I replaced the dink cd drive and then immediatly set to installing software.

Meet "Glory"......

I am an Ebay addict. Well, kind of.. I love Breyer horses -- and this little boy was customized and offered for sale on that bad bad website!

Thats all for now! gotta run!

WCBlogging and a recipe!

2006-09-30T06:54:00.000-07:00

No, the recipe is not for CAT! LOL Though the cats steal the end result of the recipe posted below. My cats LOVE bread!

Our host this weekend is House of Mostly Black Cats! I will be unable to post a picture this weekend at the rate things are going. I went to go install my camera software only to find that my cd rom is broken. *sighs* oh the joys of toddler hood! And I even had a neat picture of Pause hiding in the grass.. and was going to have a caption to the effect of, "Shhhhh. I am hiding!" The biggest reason I cannot do anything about the CD Rom currently is that I am 1. waiting on a batch of dinner rolls to do its thing so I can bake it in about 1.5 hours and 2. Debating on where to get a new cd rom from. either office max or a friend.

And even though I have this recipe posted below once again I cannot post a picture because my computer can't talk to the camera with out that software! So, do enjoy the recipe and I am going to make a bee-line to the friends house for a cd rom and a movie and will hopefully be up and running the way I should be later today!

This recipe is courtesy of RecipeZaar-Where the RECIPES ARE! If you make it, and have an account *which is free*, please rate it!

Oatmeal Dinner Rolls

2 cups water
1 cup quick-cooking oats
3 tablespoons butter or margarine
2 envelopes active dry yeast
1/2 cup water
1 tablespoon sugar
4 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1/3 cup packed brown sugar

1. Bring 2 cups water to a boil in a medium saucepan; stir in oats and butter.
2. Boil, stirring constantly, 1 minute.
3. Remove from heat; let cool to 110 degrees.
4. Stir together yeast, ½ cup warm water, and 1 T.
5. sugar in a 2-cup measuring cup; let stand 5 minutes.
6. Beat oat mixture, yeast mixture, flour, salt, and brown sugar at medium speed with an electric mixer until smooth.
7. Turn dough out onto a floured surface; knead till smooth and elastic (about 5 minutes) or knead in bread mixer with dough hook 2 to 3 minutes.
8. Place in a well-greased bowl, turning to grease top.
9. Cover and let rise in warm place (85 degrees) free from drafts, 1 hour or until double in bulk.
10. Punch down dough and divide in half; shape each portion into 8 balls. (Each pan will hold 8 rolls and you use 2 lightly greased round cake pans)
11. Place evenly into 2 lightly greased round cake pans.
12. Cover and let rise in warm place free from drafts, 30 minutes or until doubled in bulk.
13. Bake at 375 for 15 minutes or until golden brown.
14. Makes 16 rolls.

What Will You Do?

2006-09-29T22:15:00.000-07:00

I did not write this, but I hope that I can have as much compassion as this woman and family had if the opportunity presents itself. Maybe not exactly this way, but in other ways - to help others. I have been helped in the past when things were really bad -- I have recieved and for that I am too grateful. And I have had opportunity to help others and have done so.

Please comment, copy and paste it -- share it. I also do not attend church on a regular basis, but I do believe that we have an angel(s)*my 2yo toddler needs more than one trust me!* that watches over us and Lord that loves us unconditionally.

If you do copy this and post it to your blog let me know -- and let me know if I have permission to set up a link on this post to your blog. Thank you.

This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until
the end! (After the story, there are some very interesting facts!):

I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my
college degree.

The last class I had to take was Sociology.

The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every
human being had been graced with.

Her last project of the term was called "Smile."

The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their
reactions.

I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello
anyway, so, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I
went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning.

It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden
everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did.

I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up
inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved.

As I turned around I smelled a horrible "dirty body" smell, and there
standing behind me were two poor homeless men.

As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling".

His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for
acceptance.

He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had been clutching.

The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I
realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed
gentleman was his salvation.

I held my tears as I stood there with them.

The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.

He said, "Coffee is all Miss" because that was all they could afford. (If
they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy
something. He just wanted to be warm).

Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out
and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.

That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging
my every action.

I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more
breakfast meals on a separate tray.

I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a
resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the
blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand.

He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Thank you."

I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you.
God is here working through me to give you hope."

I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son. When I sat
down my husband smiled at me and said, "That is why God gave you to me,
Honey, to give me hope."

We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of
the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.

We are not church goers, but we are believers.

That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.

I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in
hand.

I turned in "my project" and the instructor read it.

Then she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?"

I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.

She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and
being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my husband, son,
instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I
spent as a college student.

I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn:
UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read
this and learn how to LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS - NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE
PEOPLE.

If you think this story has touched you in any way, please send this to
everyone you know.

There is an Angel sent to watch over you.

In order for him work, you must pass this on to the people you want
watched over.

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will
leave footprints in your heart.

To handle yourself, use your head.

To handle others, use your heart.

God Gives every bird it's food, but He does not throw it into its nest.

Keep this going.

Wish Care Bear!

2006-09-25T06:16:00.000-07:00

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